Thursday, November 01, 2007

Review: Nooma "Name" by Rob Bell a Disappointing Release

I've long been a fan of Rob Bell. Billy and I played his video, "Flame," at our wedding, and Velvet Elvis was a great read.

But last night, we watched his new video "Name," and not only was I less than impressed, I was beyond disappointed in the psychobabble that Bell felt is necessary for spiritual direction from a Christian perspective (a position the Nooma website totes as its own purpose).

1. "Name" begins with Bell talking about a meeting with his counselor, and the relativistic question that his counselor poses to him.

"Don't worry if it's normal for people. Is it normal for you?"
Well, folks...hearing the "voice of God" through his neighbor's dog seemed to be normal for David Berkowitz. Somehow, I don't think that's quite right, regardless of how normal it is.

True, Bell discusses a verse in which Jesus tells Peter not to worry about whether the other guy is following, but this doesn't quite make the leap to "is it normal for me?" If anything, it asks the question, "Is this healthy?" After all, if Peter had asked the question, "Is this normal for me?" he would've come up with the answer,
"Wanting fairness and flying off the handle over it is normal for me."
But of course we know that Peter wasn't healthy in this particular emotional element of himself.

Jesus was drawing him out of what was normal for him and into what was healthy for everyone.

2. Bell also talks in depth about the story of Jacob becoming Israel.

Here, his point is that we must come to terms with all the things about ourselves that we hate before we can move forward and be used by God. Sure, that's my paraphrase, but that's the message that comes out.

Bells says, "You don't have to like your past, but you have to claim it." He also says this about our body shape.

And while I agree that we need to come to terms with "who we are," I feel like a more productive idea (and a more "Christian perspective" since that's what we're presenting in these Noomas) would be to focus on who we are in Christ.

There is room for "coming to terms" kind of stuff. But I feel like this is not about claiming our past so much as accepting Christ's love and forgiveness and believing that that love and forgiveness is truly sufficient.

After all, doesn't God (through Paul - who by the way didn't change his name, but simply started going by his Greek name since he was a missionary to the Gentiles) tell us to forget the past?

See the story of Jacob isn't about claiming your past (there's more I could say here), but it's about God giving a new identity. This true story is a symbol of the internal, spiritual workings of who we become in Christ. We have a new birth, don't we?

3. Bell discusses loving your neighbor as yourself.

While talking about this concept, Bell commits the ultimate annoyance.

He says something along the lines of, "You can't love your neighbor until you learn to love yourself." I think we've all heard this before.

I understand the sentiment, but the issue I have with this reasoning is that it's focused on the self and not on God. (Well, actually, so was the whole "Name" video.)

The message was not, "God's love makes you worth-while. So take that love, claim it, embrace it, cherish it."

The message that Bell is sending is the same mumbo-jumbo as Oprah's universe-worshiping guests.

"Love yourself. Accept yourself. Don't apologize any longer. Oh yeah, and maybe God might do something, but mainly it's up to you.

If you'd like to watch "Name" for free. It is available until noon on Friday on Nooma's MySpace.

13 comments:

  1. Anonymous4:30 PM

    i would reply to like both this and the osteen thing but my brain is fried and i am hungry and annoyed and on hold with the phone people and Frank my cat is yoooowwwwwing in desire to go outside but it's too cold.....auggh! maybe this weekend, chik. i haven't forgotten you.

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  2. Anonymous7:57 AM

    "Jesus was drawing him out of what was normal for him and into what was healthy for everyone."

    Amen and amen.

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  3. So um, I just bought and watched the video and if you were a journalist I'd see to it that you were sued for libel. You either completely miss the point of the entire video b/c you were distracted when you watched it or you just didn't care. Your recounting of the counselor session is completely wrong.

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  4. So um, maybe you can enlighten us all to the truth, Mr. Fake.

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  5. I missed the free showing...I'll have to borrow or order my own. I think that it is important, however, that we not compare ourselves to one another. Where we walk in our faith, how we walk in our faith, and when we embrace our faith is as uniquely individual as we are.
    I also think that the word 'normal' has lost its meaning since we live in a fallen world. I love what you wrote about being healthy for everyone. Very curious to see the video. And Mr. Fake's response.

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  6. Anonymous4:12 PM

    Well said sister!

    Let the 'me' become less, and 'He' become greater...

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  7. Anonymous12:55 AM

    i don't believe rob is in anyway speaking of self praise. what he is talking about are people trying to identify themselves through others instead of being the person God has created them to be. rob is just saying that God created everyone different and they should claim the things He has placed in them. acceptance is a big issue in our world and many people will go to the extremes, completely changing who they are, just to fit in or be "normal," whatever normal may be in their situation. even christians fake being christian sometimes. christians are probably the most critical type of people i know, as if they are perfect, and i'm ashamed to say that i used to be one of those types of christians. as a matter of fact its a little discouraging to see a christian be so critical of someone who's is trying to encourage others to be what God has made them to be. and i also don't believe he was saying "accept yourselves.. and maybe God might do something, but mainly it's up to you." i believe what he was saying was the other way around. God has already done something in you and its up to you to accept the gifts, talents, personality,etc, that God has given you.

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  8. To the anonymous person who wouldn't leave their name:

    A rule of thumb in blogging is to not respond to people who won't identify themselves, but as you didn't seem to be malicious, I thought I would respond anyway.

    With all due respect, I believe that you are putting a lot of your Christian learning into Bell's mouth. I wrote my review based on what he said, not based on what I've learned from other places.

    If you watch his video without the lens of your Christian learning...perhaps as a non-Christian, even...then I think that my analysis stands up.

    I can't assume that he has my ideas behind his words, so I took his words at face value without imposing my own belief system into them.

    If you care to reply, please leave a name, or your comment will be deleted.

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  9. to the anonymous poster...

    one thing to think about. Jesus NEVER calls us to accept our sin. So I should never accept any part of me that is sinful. It's extremely difficult, and I'm very bad at it, but that's what He has called us to do.

    Leaving that part out of the video (which is supposed to be a Christian message) means that Mr. Bell is not being faithful to Scripture or to Jesus' original message.

    So, unfortunately, the thousands or tens of thousands of people who watch this video receive (or received) an un-biblical message with that video. It's very sad.

    Embracing who you are is a very good thing. And, I'm sure the Bible speaks to that point some times... With the story of Jacob wrestling, I just don't think it's the case.

    God be praised that the power of His message isn't confined to Mr. Bell's faulty theology (or mine)...

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  11. I have two comments:

    1) I completely agree with the anonymous person.
    How did the anonymous person put "Christian learning into Bell's mouth." What he/or she said was based on what Bell actually stated:

    "We'll never live from our true selves when we're comparing ourselves to those around us... How much life do we lose when we're endlessly comparing and measuring and gaging ourselves according to those around us, when we're jealous of what someone else has or even who someone is."

    "Some people live their whole lives according to the expectations of others."

    The message in this video, about identity, is clearly to those who struggle with acceptance. When people feel like they are not accepted they often feel like its because they don't have what others have, causing envy and jealousy. So they have to have or be like others in order to feel accepted. They allow envy and jealousy to take over. Hence, the reason Bell uses these Scriptures:

    "A heart at peace gives live to the body, but envy rots the bones" -Proverbs 14:30

    "Resentment kills a fool, and envy slays the simple"- Job 5:2

    Living through someone else's identity is not going to make people accept you for who you really are. True acceptance comes when you're real about who you are. In the end living a lie its just going to leave you unhappy.

    2) I don't think forgetting your past means you are not to claim your past. God says to forget not deny your past. There's a big difference. Bell was saying not to deny things that have happened to you. Learn from them then move on. When Paul said to forget the past he meant to leave the mistakes from the past in the past and don't let them control your life. You don't forget the lessons you learned from the past. The lessons learned are what help you move ahead.

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  12. Anonymous4:25 PM

    Right, well, actually I find the idea that we should "love ourselves in Christ" is a much used and annoying phrase- what on earth does it really mean anyway?

    What Rob was clearly saying is that we ought to love ourselves for what God created us to be- it's all very well saying Love Yourself Because Jesus Loves You- but that's the easiest advice to give and the hardest to take. Rob suggests we see ourselves as we are, and in that we can learn to love ourselves the way God loves us.

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  13. Anonymous1:32 PM

    I just saw "Name" last night at our church "bible study," and I second your analysis.

    The biggest problem with Nooma is that Christians fill in the gaps ("Of course he said that!") -- gaps which are ridiculously absent of any actual Gospel.

    It's as if I walked into a room filled with co-workers with my wife by my side and said, "Hi everyone, this is Janet" and failed to mention that she is my wife.

    Wouldn't you think that was strange?

    So it is with Rob Bell's stuff. He's super-intense and careful and yet he carefully does not mention grace or sin or repentence or the cross?

    Sorry, I find Nooma annoying, un-edifying, pretentious, and mildly heretical.

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